• 2019/ 8/ 30
• Contributor:THE SALON
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The difference in feelings between liking and caring ②

Thank you very much for always watching.

I'm Itsuki from THESALON.

The other day, I was seriously thinking about the difference between liking Shimabara and being curious about it.

Indeed, when asked, "What is the difference between being curious and liking?"

"???"

That's what it felt like.

In the first place, I never thought about it that deeply, so this time I also thought about Itsuki carefully.

① What is “like”

I will write from here in order.

I think that liking means "I'm already completely in love".
just thinking about that person
・My chest feels tight
・Fried chicken doesn't go down my throat
・I can't stop thinking in the middle of the night
・I get excited just by receiving a message by SMS

Isn't that the case?

There's no reason for this to happen.
It's often called "love sickness".

②What is “worried”?

So what are you worried about?

Isn't it the feeling that arises "towards the other person who contains the elements and conditions that make you fall in love"?

"Ah, this person is nice."

Even if you think that, the fried chicken is still delicious and you can sleep soundly at night.

③Isn't it just painful to say "I love you"?

I think there's something here and I'm curious → I think I'm going to like it.

But when I think about it, I feel like "like" is a pretty painful situation.

Still, it's really wonderful to meet someone who thinks like that.

I will do my best at work and love, thinking that this pain is the stairway to adulthood.

Thank you for your continued support of the salon.

THE SALON Jun Itsuki