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to become a good conversationalist

Thank you for always watching.
This is kawakami from the salon.


I often hear that the reason for setting failure is
"I couldn't have a good conversation"
This is the most common inquiry we receive.


"He looked so pretty/pretty"
Even those who say that are often refused because of the conversation.


Beautiful women don't get bored in 3 days
It's not fun to date with figurines...
It is that.


So how do you get the conversation going?
The first thing that comes to mind is “to be interested in the other person”.
At SALON, we show you a brief profile of your partner before the feeling time.
First of all, try to be interested in the content.
Lucky if you have something in common with yourself!
Isn't it a good story to inflate the story?
Or rather, if you can't expand the story on common matters, there's no future.


Next, to make it easier to understand,
Are you interested in what your partner looks like and what they wear?
I don't think anyone would be offended by telling you how nice you are,
From there, the story may develop into your favorite brand or product/event.


And most importantly, be interested in what the other person has to say.
You can get a glimpse of things that are not written in the profile or thoughts.
Wouldn't it be nice if we could scoop that up and spread the story?


So how do you get interested and spread the story from there...
This may be difficult, and you may have no choice but to practice.
What Kawakami thinks is that it may be important how much the person has "what they know even if it is shallow" and "what they have experienced".
If you touch something you know, you will have some reaction,
If you come across something you don't know, you'll want to know and you can ask questions.

Is it possible to self-disclose?
People who try to hide and hide are only aware of that, don't you think the conversation will be very unnatural?
I often have interviews, and I feel like I want to finish the interview of such a person as soon as possible.

As I wrote this, I realized that you can't become a good conversationalist overnight.
A natural conversationalist!I really envy people like you...
If you are aware that you may not be good at conversation,
One way is to master your own hobbies, and another way is to research hobbies that men might like.
A certain story with prefectures, special products, current affairs, trivia... It's also a good idea to research shallowly and widely!
Let 's do our best.

 

The other day, Kawakami, who was overwhelmed while talking to the members (I'm really bad at talking~ (TT)), will do his best.



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