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The summer heat has completely disappeared, and it's starting to feel a little chilly.
The season when we start to long for human warmth is approaching...💕

 

So today's theme is simply about feelings.

 

The feelings between men and women are an eternal theme.
In relationships, whether romantic or friendship, I think it's common to feel like "I seem to get along with this person" or "Maybe I'm a little different from this person."
Feeling is something that can't be explained in words; it's all about whether or not your senses match up with each other.
(That's why it's so difficult to attend to matching...)

 

It's often said that men and women perceive feelings differently.
For example, it is said that men are relatively prone to intuitively feel that they are interested in someone, and they often decide whether or not they have a good connection with someone as soon as they meet them.
On the other hand, it is said that women often take a little time to sense feelings from their partner's actions and words.
Of course, this isn't true for everyone, but I think this is a general trend.

 

Also, when men and women don't get along, it's often due to a miscommunication.
For example, men may have difficulty putting their feelings into words, while women may try to read their partner's feelings from their actions.
This mismatch can sometimes be the reason you feel like "something just doesn't feel right."

 

However, when you feel a connection with someone, there are times when you can communicate without saying anything.
We can be ourselves and get along easily without having to worry about each other.
That kind of compatible feeling is a very important element in a relationship, whether romantic or friendship.

 

However, even if you feel like you don't have a good feeling for each other at first, a feeling may develop over time.

 

I also went to the same school from kindergarten to high school, and I still have one childhood friend who is the only one I'm still close with in my hometown.
To be honest, until I was in junior high school, I thought of her as "a friend I didn't really get along with."

After we started attending the same high school, the distance between us suddenly became much closer.
Even though we went to different universities, we are still good friends to this day.

We don't even have any common interests, so I wonder how we connected?
Although that's the way things are with them, they have a relationship where they really don't have to be careful around each other.

 

Exactly[Feeling develops over time] Was it?

 

So instead of jumping to conclusions based on first impressions, you can hope that a new feeling will emerge as you get to know the other person.

In the end, some feelings are felt in an instant, while others take time to develop.
If you understand the differences between men and women and value your feelings, you can build a deeper relationship.

 

 

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