• 2025/ 2/ 14
• Contributor:Hiroe Fujisawa
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This time, I'll say it straight out!"Bad behaviors that older men tend to do in social clubs"

Even if you have a wonderful encounter, it would be a shame if you were to think, "Wow..." on first meeting.
Read this and be careful not to become a "bad old man"!

① The problem of trying to look too young
"I'm still cool!" says an older man, appearing dressed in fashion for people in their 20s and wearing flashy accessories...
Simple, clean clothes will leave a good impression! A sophisticated and stylish look that suits your age will bring out your adult charm.

② They tend to talk about their past heroic deeds.
"When I was young..." "During the bubble era..." the old man endlessly recounts stories from decades ago.
Women want to know about your current charms and values, rather than tales of your past exploits.
Keep the old stories in moderation and make sure you listen to what the other person has to say!

3. Speaking in a casual manner and looking down on others from the first meeting
No matter how rich you are, if someone asks you in a condescending manner, "So, what can you do?", you're out.
When meeting someone for the first time, remember to be polite and humble.
It is especially important to be mindful of polite language when there is an age difference.

4. Table manners are questionable...
They eat noisily, chew with their mouths wide open, and are rude to the staff...
The woman I'm dining with notices even the smallest details!
Treating someone doesn't mean you're superior, but if you keep smart dining etiquette in mind, you'll make a good impression.

⑤ Sudden, overly familiar body contact
If you take actions that get the distance wrong, such as "Let's hold hands" or "Pat her on the shoulder," women will be put off.
Especially when meeting someone for the first time, it's important to behave like a gentleman! Staying calm and waiting for the other person to open up is what makes you an adult.

⑥ Talking only about themselves and bombarding them with questions
It's not a good idea to just talk about yourself, saying things like "My job is..." or "My hobbies are...", or, on the other hand, bombarding the other person with questions like "Where are you from? What do you do? How old are you?"
The important thing is to have a conversation! Respect the other person's pace and have a fun conversation.

[Summary] How to become a popular older man 💕?
✔ Be conscious of clean, adult fashion
✔ Listen carefully to what the other person is saying and talk about the present rather than the past
✔ Polite language and humble attitude
✔ Be gentlemanly when dining
✔ Be careful with body contact! First of all, be mindful of your distance.
✔ The key is to keep the conversation balanced and make the other person feel at ease.

When meeting people at a dating club, it's important that both parties have a fun and comfortable time together, rather than just having a business-like relationship.
Behave with a sense of ease, something only an older man can do, and enjoy a wonderful time!

Additionally, I wrote this beforeThis is God's Papa BlogI would be happy if you could take a look at it for reference (*^^*)

I hope you can become a "popular old man💕" instead of a "useless old man" ♪

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