• 2025/ 3/ 3
• Contributor:Hiroe Fujisawa
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I'll tell you straight out! ~Part 2~

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Part 2 of I'll tell you straight out! Today's post is for the ladies!

[What are some bad habits that women tend to do in dating clubs?]

This time, for all the women who are registered in the dating club,"Bad behaviors that will cost you money if you do them"I will tell you!
It would be a shame to have a chance to meet someone wonderful and have it ruined by just one small action.

Please check it out to see if you ever find yourself thinking, "Maybe I'm doing this..." ♪

① Lateness and cancellations
This is surprisingly common! If you think, "It's okay if I'm a little late, right?" you're very wrong.
The other person will be making plans within a limited time, so keeping to time is an important point that leads to trust.

If you absolutely must be late, it is good adult etiquette to contact someone in advance!

② Feel like a princess and look down on others
An attitude like, "You're just happy to be able to meet me, aren't you?" is a no-no!
It is true that men will escort women, but a dating club is a place to enjoy an equal relationship.
The secret to building a great relationship is to be grateful and treat each other with courtesy.

3. Always looking at your smartphone
If you play with your smartphone during a meal or in the middle of a conversation, your partner will think, "Is it boring to be with me?"
Since it's a date, make sure to make eye contact when you speak!

④ Always talking about money
Do you always talk about money every time you meet, asking questions like, "What about a present?" or "Will you take me to XX next time?"
Of course, there are many situations in which men provide support in dating clubs, but if they are too obvious, people may be put off.
It's important to build relationships smartly.

⑤ The conversation is too passive
If you simply respond to what a man is saying with things like "Yes," "I see," and "Oh, I see," he will likely think, "Maybe you're not interested in me."
Men also want to spend time with women who can have fun conversations.
Asking questions and sharing your opinions will help you have a more lively conversation.

⑥ Clothes that are too flashy or too casual
First impressions are very important! If you put too much effort into wearing gaudy branded clothing, or on the other hand, dress too casually, men might wonder, "Is this girl okay?"
You will make a good impression if you dress neatly and appropriately for the occasion!

7. Saying "I'll leave it to you" too much
Have you started saying things like "Anything is fine" or "I'll leave it to you"?
Some men prefer to be led, while others prefer to have fun together.
It's important not to be too shy, as expressing a small preference like, "I like XX♪" can really get the conversation flowing!

[Summary] How to become an attractive lady✨?
✔ Don’t be late or cancel at the last minute! Being punctual is basic etiquette
✔ Be grateful and value equal relationships
✔ Focus on the person in front of you rather than your smartphone
✔ Keep the conversation about money to a minimum! Keep the conversation balanced
✔ Don't be passive, but enjoy the conversation
✔ Dress appropriately for the occasion and be conscious of cleanliness
✔ Don't just leave everything to someone else, but express your opinions appropriately.

In a dating club, it is important to build relationships that make both men and women think, "I want to see you again."
A little consideration can make a wonderful encounter even more special.

Try to be more conscious of this from today so that your charm can shine even more.

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