• 2025 January 9
• Contributor:Hiroe Fujisawa
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People who have the ability to listen are liked

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Whether at work or in your personal life, is there someone who makes you feel comfortable when talking to them?
When you think about the reason for this, it's often not because they're good at talking, but because they're actually good listeners.

The same goes for dates at a salon.
Rather than trying hard to "entertain the conversation" or "keep the conversation going," people who can naturally draw out the other person's conversation will leave an overwhelmingly better impression.
This is because having someone listen to you makes you feel safe and like you are being cared for.

I think that is exactly what the "power of listening" is.

Listening does not mean just nodding silently.
By showing interest in what the other person is saying and asking questions and responding with reactions such as "What does that mean?" or "Wow, that's interesting!", the other person will feel that you are listening to them carefully.
This sense of security makes relationships more comfortable.

The same goes for dating in this activity.
Even if you don't have any special topics to talk about or speaking skills, just by listening to what the other person is saying and expressing a little interest, you can become someone that the other person finds easy to talk to.
And strangely enough, people who are easy to talk to end up being people you want to see again.
 

It's important to let others know about your charms, but more than that, the quickest way to deepen a relationship is to have an attitude of "getting to know the other person."
The ability to listen can be a powerful asset in love, work, and life in general.

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