• January 2025, 12
• Contributor:Yuya Unno
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A "moderate distance" that doesn't get too obsessed

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Today's blog will be written by Umino!

This time, I would like to talk about the "sense of distance," which is one of the most important aspects of this activity.

1. Don't get too addicted

The relationships we form through this activity are special ones where we share comfortable times together.
That's why it's essential to maintain a "moderate distance" so as not to become too emotionally attached to the other person.
If you get too caught up in it, you may get caught up in the other person's pace and before you know it, you may find yourself at a disadvantage.
Always be careful not to become too dependent, give too much, or do too much in anything.

2. Dependence and over-involvement

Umino has also been too obsessed with one thing or the other in the past,
I have received many "tearful consultations" from people who have lost their balance.
To be honest, there are very few good reports of cases like this.

In many cases, people tend to become emotionally exhausted, push themselves too hard, or be swayed by the other person's words and actions, which can lead to mental strain.

Of course, it's a good thing that your feelings for each other are growing!
However, if you get too involved, you will likely lose your composure and end up hurting yourself.
As the saying goes, "love is blind," and I think that if you get too obsessed with something, your perspective can easily become narrow...

3. Trust should be built slowly and without haste

Real relationships are often developed little by little over time.
There's no need to seek a deep relationship right from the start or rush to get closer.
By respecting each other's pace and building trust in a natural way, we can create a long-lasting, comfortable relationship.
I feel that the key to making activities a better experience is to not get too addicted or dependent on them, and to maintain your own center!

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