• June 17, 2026
• Contributor:Hiroe Fujisawa
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Truly wonderful men don't think of themselves as the ones "choosing."

Always I am indebted.
Fujisawa will be in charge today 🌸

Today, I'd like to talk a little bit for our male members.

Given the nature of a dating club,

"Because men are the ones who pay."
"Because men are the ones who choose."

I think it's somewhat natural to think that way.
Of course, that's not wrong.

However, there's something I've noticed while doing this job.
The truly wonderful men aren't actually there to "choose" someone.
Rather, I think many people value the connections themselves.

After setting it up, before we even asked for their feedback,

"Was the woman okay?"
"Did you enjoy it?"

There's someone who asks me that question every time.

Also, even if it's a little different from your ideal,

"Thank you for coming today."
"It's not exactly what you're looking for, but you took the time to come all this way."

And, to make sure to have a brief conversation before leaving, he didn't forget to be considerate of the woman.

Every time I see a scene like that,

"Ah, this person is wonderful. They truly seem to have a lot of composure."

I think.

Because the woman also prepares for that day.

I bought some new clothes.
I went to the hair salon.
I do my nails.

I'm heading to the meeting place feeling a little nervous, wondering who I'll be meeting that day.

That's why, regardless of whether it leads to a connection or not,

"Thank you for coming"

I think a man who can be grateful for that is truly wonderful.

And, in the end...

Those kinds of men are the ones who seem to be truly liked by women.

Now, I'm a little hesitant about what to say as a staff member...

Men are surprisingly,

"This girl is in love with me."
"I am special."

I often think that way.

Of course, there are indeed cases like that.

However, women are better at reading the atmosphere than men realize.

Creating a fun atmosphere is also important.
Showing respect to others is also important.
They're also good at making people happy.

In this industry,

"I want to meet you because you're [Name]."
"Mr./Ms. XX is special."

Such phrases are not uncommon.

However, judging someone's feelings based solely on those words might be a little risky.

Because women are creatures who can do their best to avoid making the other person feel bad.

The kind of man a woman truly can't leave is...

Even men who have money,
He's not the kind of man who can choose his woman,

A man who treats women with respect.

A man who can show respect to women.

A man I can feel safe and secure around.

That's the kind of person I think he is.

Even when looking at people who have maintained good relationships for a long time,

What they all have in common is not their qualifications, but their warmth as human beings.

A true gentleman is someone who doesn't judge others.

True wealthy people are those who never forget to show respect to others.

A dating club is not a place to judge someone, but a place to meet someone special and find a connection.

That is why

"What can I be given?"

not,

"What kind of time can I offer the other person?"

Perhaps those who can adopt that perspective are ultimately the most attractive. 🌷

Thank you for reading until the end.

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